"I'm a loner. I gets hard for me to face the world sometimes. Its hard to be alone, but its harder to be surrounded by people and still be utterly alone; so I choose to stay alone for the most part."- Wolfknight
I used to have loads of friends, i even had one post here stating na hindi ako nahihirapang makahanap ng kaibigan. But timed change .... i have changed.
I may call it maturity, or just a phased of my so called life. Pero ewan ko, just like now i am still on training and having some of my close friends before as my co-trainee right now makes me think that i dont really need to befriend with others pa.
I dont know pero i find it very plastik kung pipilitin kong makilala pa sila pero sa loob-loob ko hindi ko naman talaga gusto.
I am becoming an unsocial person (kung meron man nun) or i am just being picky in terms of having friends now.
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Baka dahilan din ito ng paguwi ka na sa Pilipinas? Medyo na depressed ka ata. Pero, stick to those people who stick with you. And it's ok to be anti-social for a while, at least meron kang time mag contemplate.
K lang yan.
as you grow older, you will find out who your real friends are. Don't worry, it's normal to have time for yourself and not force any friendship.
pa comment pare.. sayang punta ko dito eh.. nandito na lang din naman. senti post mo ah.. sana kasama ko sa friends na gusto mong matira sa buhay mo hehehe.. Good luck sa adjustment ng iyong moods.
I think,as we're maturing,our longing to being with others become lesser.It usually proportional to how poor our self-esteem is doing at a given moment.
normal lang yan. lahat tayo dumadaan sa ganyan situwasyon. mas importante yun mga kaibigan mong matagal mo ng kilala. yun kilala ang buong pagkatao mo.
pasko na naman o kay tulin ng araw *singing* hayyy, miss ko ang xmas dyan. malapit na ang simbang gabi.
ingatz
tanga pulubi ka talaga kaya hindi ka sosyal... wala kang susyal layp... kaya wag ka na magpaka susyal...
mag antay ka lang wind... 6 months... sasamahan kita diyan... guguluhin natin ang buhay nilang magulo... gugulpihin natin ang mga yan... bwhahahaha...
sabihin mo antayin nila ako at papaulanan natin sila ng samut saring mura at kalaswaan bwhahahaha =P
malungkot ka naman pare! Tama na yan!!!
win,
"real friends are hard to find". they just come to your life, and in one way or another, you will realize that that they have touched your life.
when we met, i really didn't have any intention of being friends with my workmates because i was not excited of getting that work. when you started to talk, i thought that you might just be an acquaintance. but when time passed by, i felt that there was something that binded us together with laryuki, butchok and all the pasaway friends of ours. until we all have to leave and find other career. even if we had different works, we still managed to keep in touch.
there was a time that all the "friends" that i considered, left me (laryuki knows it, ask him). but i realized that i am still lucky to have "real friends" who i can depend on.
it is not how many friends you have which will make you happy, but those who stayed with you all throughout. all those who has accepted you as who you are. all those who share special memories or even ordinary days that they make special. cheer up! we're still here. ;o)
scarletbeads
(p.s. di ako makasign in as blogger, kaya other na lang. hehehe)
nakaka relate ako sayo pre. parehas tayo ng pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. pag-uwi ko dito satin sa pinas i just have these feeling na maging anti-social. sabi nga ng mga ol friends ko, nag-iba daw ako.
pero sa tingin ko alam ko kung bakit ako nagkakaganto. sabi ko baka lilipas din to.
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